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May 27 attacked by STRONG_Virus_Usually, i only get sick twice or thrice a year.Furthurmore my sick will only last for 1 or 2 days.
However,just before my Camp,i got mild fever + cough +flu. I think it wasnt any big deal cause i'm used to recover very very fast.
I went to see the doctor to get some medication for the camp.At first,i just felt like the flu is getting worst,but i didnt want to care cause i told myself it wil be gone soon after the sports activities. Yet,when they served lunch,i realise i had lost all my appetite as i start to suffer from sore throat.The rice there look stiff and the food wasnt really appetizing.Thus, i didn't eat. The next game started
and i was quite fine and so throughout the other games. My feverish only started when dinner time came.I didnt feel hungry either so i didnt eat. However i still drink lots of water.I didnt inform the authorities about my condition cause i thought it was just a small thing.Midnight,i woke up about 6 times to go to the loo(drink too much water).The thing was when i had to go to the loo,i would go around my dorm asking my friends that who can accompany me there.No one answered so i had to go by myself hoping that i dont get to see anything. The next morning i had a crucial sore throat pain till i cant talk. However i heard my friends were busy chit-chatting about yesterday that they heard the "noise" :who can accompany me to toilet~~...Apparently they thought it was the ghost calling thats why no one answer. I lost my "beautiful " voice which now sounds like a grandma or guy voice.Worst of all, i got these rashes on my legs and hands. I feel totally lethargic. Hoping that i can get well soon. Lying on the first aid room's bed, i feel bored and lonely. Praying and wishing that i will get well soon to join the hAPPy gangs out there. In fact i did manage to get well a bit and play the flying fox, wall climbing and absailling.But one thing that touched me the most is the people and friends there .
They really take care of me and helped me. Some even carried me when i fainted. Though i cant enjoy the activities there but i really appreciate the presence of my friends.Thanks u GUYS~ May 13 Rumours Just recently , I went into a coffee shop near my college to meet my seniors which were the student councils. Since i took part in this student council in my college, my life is more busy yet interesting. I sat down and just at that moment i realize there's a tense situation happening at that moment. I just remain quite listening my guy friend being interview by the another girl friend. I realise they were debating about rumours about the girl in the college. The guy think that rumours is just a small matter while the girl think it's a big matter. It turned out that this conversation stop when my girl fren broke into tears.I was speechless and so shocked as i thought she was a strong girl that wouldnt cry in public.Yet, never judge a book by its cover. The story of my dear friend is just as simple as she had a boy friend and now is her ex boy friend.He dumped her for another girl which look exactly like her!~Yet,this*bastard* cant leave her alone.Instead stalking around her trying to investigate her latest relationship. However this *bastard* doesnt realise that deeply in her heart she still cant forget him as he is her first love. This *bastard* tried ruining her life by spreading rumours that she is a play girl. As we all know , rumours are just rumours which is so NOT TRUE.However,imagine if you're someone that doesnt even know her. Through these rumours, totally strangers can hav bad impression over her. This rumour spread till other classes and soon majority of seniors heard of these rumours. Thus,whereever she is at college,there will be eyes staring at her. Guys, eventhough how macho you think you are...Never ever gossip or spread rumours about any girl you know. Its the worst thing to do. Do u know that anything that can ruin the spirit in a girl isn't break ups nor humilation. Instead it's rumours.Rumours might last for half a year or years. However, human being wouldnt stop closing their mouth nor shut their memories.Think of it,how long does it take for Britney nor Michael Jackson to change the impression of the world towards them?Maybe for some of you will think it'll passed. However the side effect of these might lead to a fail in examination, depression and even suicide.Thus, if you really hate someone its better to curse them by words than revenging in this way.For girls out there, if you are facing the same thing, my adive to you is to stay strong and be confident.True friends wont leave you and stray by your side support you. If not you can also look forward to your parents or sibings. Life have to go on and it's the fact that this is not the worst thing in the whole world. CHeers!~ wish all girls to be HAPPY alwayS!!~ May 10 Mothers' Day GiftMothers' Day is a special day to appreciate all mothers' as they were the ones that Born us out.
Though im not yet a mother , I came to realise that as i grow older, many things changed and thus
understand my mum more.It is siad by most proffessionals that delivery is a crucial pain WILLINGLY by every mother.
Even during the ocess of pregnancy, future mum's faced many emotional problems which is worst than the prementrual syndrom.
Imagine if your a women itself and facing PMS for 9 months. I myself thoroughly suffer during the PMS period nd so do my friends and family around me.However my gift here to every mother in the world is not FLowerly words nor praising them. For me ,the greatest job
of a mother is not delivering nor being a nanny etc. For me, I salute mothers for raising up their kids into teenagers and then to a young matured adult.Therefore ,my gift to all mothers is a guide to bring up your kids
Toddler
1.Care and love whole heartedly
2.Eventhough your tired and stress after delivery,don't try to immediately take care of the baby.
Rest and calm your emotions by meditating or reading more articles of how to raise your kid
3.Never hurt or bring things that harm your child.
----basically....its more general and most mum dont face much problem when they are kids.
Thus,i'll just skip to the teenagers part where its more of a crucial problem nowdays.
Teens
This advice is most slightly to bring up a daugther as ima daughter myself
1.Build a very close relationship between your daughter
Its best to have a chat almost every night about their school life.
2.Girls usually will have thier own privacy.Don't break or try to get into thier privacy.
When ur really close to your daughter,eventually she herself will tell her own feelings out.
mum can even share your own "good and bad" experience to thier child.This will create a more
friendly relationship.Never ever create a mother and daughter GAP--means mum keep ordering her child
3.Get to know the friends around your daughter.Be friendly and nice to them.Don't be a paranoid by asking who are you going out with eventhough you're really curious.If your daughter is close and friendly with you she will just tell it out.
4.Know your daughter well and trust her.
Some mother's thing they know everything about their daughter yet their daugther stil lie behind their back.Why?
Because the mother itself are too busy with thier work and neglected their daughter.The mum doesnt have any communication with their daughter.Wost of all some mothers' are not open minded. Thus, when their daughter wants to tell their mother,they will think twice. Afraid their mum will get more angry or reject their request.Knowing that curfew is good but some mum are over reacting that treats their daughter as home prisoner.Mothers should sometimes put their show into a teen and understand that the society has changed and different from the OLDIES.Thus, MUM out there if you don't want your child to lie to you(even though you train them not to lie by voilence they will lie more)please be more open minded yet not too open minded.Trust that your child has brains to think and the consequences are thiers,not your fault.
4.About studies, try pushing and encourage them to study for thier own benefit not yours.Voilence will make them hate you more
so just leave them to do what they want for thier future.Even bill gates didnt have proper studies yet now became the richest man in the world.Not to say dont need to study,what i meant is to just implementing that the future is in thier hands.Let them make the decision themselves.
5.Morality is important and this should be train from young not now!!~ too late....However this is why you have to know the friends your child is with so that you can know what type of friends does she have.MOthers' themself should show a good moral by not saying vogue laguages and immorality.This will show a bad impression or even the child will follow your footsteps.
+++CONCLUSION++
Every mum wants the best attitude and future for their kids but some how some failed. This is because lack of education and
religion concienceness in them. We have to accpet the fact that no one is perfect in this world including mums.Thus,MUM don't ever feel that your such a failure cause as long as you have try your best you are still the best. May God bless all the mum's in the world.
HAPPY MUMS' DAY May 05 My lucky yearThis year is my lucky year as i always bump into my really long long ago friends which are my primary school friends.
In fact most of the bumping area is at my working place. Not bad for my first job.Oh, i learnt not to wear high heels to work anymore
cuz it will kill my "gorgeous" leg.Anyway, back to the point, I met one of my ex classmates which used to be same class with me for about 3 years.
Seriously, she barely recognise me. and vice versa. I had changed in the way that i've grown slightly taller n lost all my baby fats. Meanwhile, she still look the same
yet,surprisingly, same height!~ Not to boast that im taller but in fact im quite a short person n she is shorter than me. Firstly, i thought she was a primary kid. But then i realise
she had some (er hemmm) u know what women has..Fortunately,i have good memory and i recognised her parents n brothers. (primary parents always visit school)
Then i only remembered her. 2nd story n 3rd story isnt reallt interesting as they didnt have many changes instead they cant recognise me. Thus, now i realise how much i change!~
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